A Few Things the Salty Ones Taught Me
Barbara O'Neal on Jun 23 2010 | Filed under: CRAFT
It would be impossible to compile all of the best things I’ve heard over the years, but I can think of a few that helped guide me, over and over.
Write whole books
Most of us do write whole books at the beginning of our careers, but then the pressure is on and most contracts call for a proposal, which is around 50 pages and a synopsis. There is nothing wrong with this practice, except that it can sometimes allow a lot more feedback than an embryo book deserves. When that happens, pull back and write a whole book. Every time I’ve done this, it led to a leap in my career. That’s worth the time.
Remember when things take a bad turn that you are building your backlist.
Every book deserves your highest, most passionate attention, no matter the market or the publisher or whatever else might be weighing on you. I heard this one from Anne Stuart when I was devastated over the cover and mishaps that struck what I felt was my best book up to that time. It eased the heat of despair then and I keep it in mind at all times. Life—and careers—are long.
Remember there are always delays, upsets, and problems in publishing.
Sometimes a check doesn’t come for months after you expect it. Sometimes your editor leaves to have a baby, or your editor leaves to get married, or he gets fired, or the publishing house is restructured, or another house gobbles yours up, or you have a book with astronauts on the cover the very month the Challenger explodes, or there is a hurricane that disrupts all travel in the South for months and nobody’s books get on the shelves. Maybe you face a cross country move or a friend dies or you break an arm and it takes twice as long as you thought to finish your book.
Go ahead and wail to your friends. Hit something, swear, have a good cry, then let it go. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep moving.
It’s not personal.
See above. Life happens to everybody.
Read everything.
The world of publishing is not just your tiny corner. Read widely, read every day. Give yourself the pleasure of reading something at random—grabbing it off the library shelves or bookstore rack of remainders. Ray Bradbury says that every writer should read a short story, an essay and a poem a day. This will keep you fresh, thinking, challenged.
Don’t listen to your own press.
Good or bad. That way lies insanity. It will also seriously interfere with the process of working on your next book and the one after that. Keep all those voices out of your head and you will be a much happier, more productive writer.
LOVE THE WORK
Nobody is forcing you to be a writer. If it is too hard, or the business makes you psychotic, stop. Find something else to do that doesn’t make you nuts.
If you do love it, it will be a friend for life, something that belongs entirely to you, a unique and beautiful offering to the world. Enjoy that!
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An incredible roundup of advice. Thank you for sharing this.
Have I mentioned lately how much I love WU? :)
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This is pure gold. Thank you! :)
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What a fantastic, realistic round up of good advice!
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Excellent advice. Thanks.
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This is such fantastic advice all the way through, and at any stage of the publishing game!
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Thanks for the good advice!
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a good reality check for the bad days! thanks, barb
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As usual – great advice. I like the first point. Write whole books. I think one of the biggest obstacles for new writers is that one milestone – write the whole story, revise and polish the whole story.
Until it’s fully written, it can be killed too easily with every comment. Remember it’s your story, not theirs.
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I am so glad your last piece of advice was to love the work. I wouldn’t want this as a career if I didn’t love writing. I have a tendency to think too far ahead and have mused on what I would do if I were to get published but then the demands drove me crazy. I can’t say for sure since I’m not in that situation and it would so depend on the circumstances, but I’m inclined to think that I would rather love what I was doing than continue to pursue a dream job that turned into a nightmare.
Writing whole books is important! My plan has always been to have several ready by the time I query my first, just to keep the ball rolling.
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If you were to take all the people who’ve been positively affected by Anne Stuart and put them in one location, you’d likely need to rent a stadium.
Other than that, I have no comment except to thank you for this.
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Jan O’Hara, you tartitude tart, you, thank you for pointing me to this post! It’s as if Barbara Samuel has been reading my mind.
Brilliant advice, from top to bottom.
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Again, wise words from Barbara that I needed to hear. Why Writers Get the Blues – it’s all there, including ‘if it makes you too crazy, get out.’ I probably consider it once a week. But then I see a very old bumper sticker from Anne Stuart that says, “Back off – I’m a Goddess”. A reminder that I may not be a Goddess, but I’m a writer. And that’s the way it is.
Now I’m going back to the original idea of a book that’s been corrupted by years of “revisions.” And I’m going to find the love.
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