Comments on: Liar Liar

By: LC

LC — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 15:15:46 +0000

Interesting… if you’d like to read a journal entry from a master of deception… go to the “example” section on http://www.deardiarybook.com

By: Danielle

Danielle — Sun, 11 Nov 2007 00:14:53 +0000

The only problem is, even when I am not lying, in an attempt to convince people I am telling the truth I actually come across as though I am lying! Cruel, cruel world…

By: Therese Walsh

Therese Walsh — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 03:31:00 +0000

Intriguing post, Kath. I think the “evolving story” is a dead give away. Ask for details and the liar doesn’t know what to say. “Uh” is also a commonly heard word out of liar’s mouths, as s/he is scrambling for something to say to answer your questions.

By: Carina

Carina — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 22:42:11 +0000

I rarely lie, but when I do… I’m terrible at it. People tell me I’m very obvious about it (avoiding eye contact, trying to change the subject, fidgeting, blushing, etc)

I also noticed that people lying tend to scratch their head or nose. They also tend to pause before telling a lie (they need to think to come up with it first, right?). Usually the facial expression of the liar is contrary to what he’s saying (like frowning or looking scared when saying something went well) or even looking forced (trying to smile).

Interesting post! :)

By: Cath

Cath — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 20:37:39 +0000

Oh, dear.

I have a 16 year old whom I occasionally catch in the act of lying. Typically, when his answer comes a little too quickly (Ie. How did you do on that PreCal test? Fine, he replies, avoiding my gaze as he nervously dashes out the door to play golf)I wonder if he’s lying. Now I see that liars avoid giving details. And fidget. And refuse to look you in the eye.

That kid is in so much trouble. (If I ever catch him!)

By: Jaye Wells

Jaye Wells — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 16:11:18 +0000

Great info. I write in first too, and have found the dictionary of nonverbal cues a handy resource.