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Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at PhotobucketPoof! That’s the sound of the bubble bursting after your book has come out.

After all of the build-up to release day, it would hard not to have the entire post-mortem be slightly anticlimactic, and I’m here to tell you that, indeed, the weeks following your book publication are a bit of a downer. Now, before you get all worked up saying that I’m acting insane – after all, my book is on store shelves – let me explain. How many of you out there are married? Quite a few? Good, then you’ll get my analogy. There is a condition that therapists have actually diagnosed that’s called something like, “post-wedding depression” or “post-wedding letdown” or something like that. And what it refers to is the period of time when brides and grooms get back from the high of the wedding and the honeymoon and come home after months of elaborate planning, and sit on their couches and look at each other and say, “Now what?” After all of the hype and hoopla, it’s just the two of them, now out of the spotlight and back to reality.

And that’s sort of how it feels to have your book come out.

Life goes on. You start to lose the thrill of seeing it stocked on shelves. You worry about writing your second one. You stress over sales. You wonder if you did enough promotion, even though you’re still doing promotion and frankly, are a little tired and rundown from doing said promotion. But the apex of the release, or the apexes, I should say – the sale, the galleys, the reviews, the actual release – have all come and gone, and you’re now left with the nitty-gritty of pushing the word about the book and trying to get it read, just like post-honeymoon, when you’re left with doing the work that keeps a marriage healthy.

Now.

I’m not complaining. I’m not even moping. I’m not saying that it isn’t a total and complete damn honor to be a published book author. It is. Especially when I get an email from a reader telling me how much he or she enjoyed the book. There is nothing more gratifying. I’m just telling you the facts. Talk to most authors, and many will tell you something similar. Time, and the publishing world, marches on. Your team at your publishing house still looks out for you, but they also have new writers to cater to. Eventually, your book is removed from the front table at shelves to make way for newer ones. Everything moves forward, and so, as a writer, you have to too. For me, this has meant diligently working on my second book, while trying not to lose sight of the fact that I still have this one to push. Knowing that I might get to see those apexes again – those thrills when someone says that she wants to buy your manuscript or when a rave review comes in – are what I’m working toward. That’s all I can do.

Everyone always tells new aspiring authors to keep writing, but the same is true for those of us who have already tasted a bit of success: keep writing. It’s the only way to keep the cycle going, until the bubble bursts again, and you hunker down to start another book anew.

10 Responses to “Post-Publishing Letdown”

  1. on 14 Jun 2007 at 9:50 am Therese Walsh

    It sounds like a wild ride (with a long wait-time to stand in line to ride again)…but one worth taking. Congrats, Allison!

  2. on 14 Jun 2007 at 10:03 am Trish Ryan

    Thanks for sharing your experience - I think the marriage analogy is great. It’s so true: you spend months planning this gigantic party, celebrating your marriage or book, and then once the party is over, it’s time to get to work because life moves and you have to move with it.

  3. on 14 Jun 2007 at 10:33 am patti

    can’t wait for my own letdown!

  4. on 14 Jun 2007 at 11:55 am Eric

    From all the descriptions it sounds like the ill feelings come from not having much to do when the book comes out — or at least, not much control because everything is in the hands of the publisher.

    Makes me glad to be self-publishing… even if it means less distribution I’ll have more than enough to do staying busy, and active with the finish book trying to promote and sell it (in addition to performing a lot of pub biz functions). I don’t think I will feel quite so disconnected from the ‘birthing’ process so to speak.

    Is there a way for writers to be more involved with the book-birthing process through their publishers? Or is it pretty much hands-off, go away and wait for your royalty check?

  5. on 14 Jun 2007 at 1:43 pm Marsha Moyer

    Actually, Eric, traditional publishers expect writers to be proactive in promoting their books. With my latest book, I provided the names of individuals and publications I wanted to be sent ARCs to review and booksellers and stores I wanted to visit; my publicists make the contacts and handle the arrangements. Independently of them, I’ve printed and mailed hundreds of postcards and emails for events and maintain (with the help of a webmaster) my own website. Each house does things differently, but in my experience most publicists are hard-working, overworked, underpaid, and under-acknowledged people who appreciate whatever writers can and will do to supplement their efforts.

  6. on 14 Jun 2007 at 1:55 pm Marsha Moyer

    One of the hardest things for me to adjust to was learning to balance being a writer (one who writes) with being a published writer (one who has written). Once the first book comes out, assuming you have others in the pipeline, it becomes a constant juggling act.

  7. on 14 Jun 2007 at 4:07 pm Kathleen Bolton

    Whew! I’m exhausted just thinking about all the promo. It seems like today there are so many ways to promo a book, you could easily make it full time. Web work, podcasts, blogging, MySpace, signings, mailings…yikes!

    No doubt about it, though. It’s a great problem to have. :-)

    Congrats, Allison!

  8. on 14 Jun 2007 at 4:50 pm Travis Erwin

    Thanks for sharing your experiences and prepping me for the realities of the business. Life is always easier to handle when you know what to expect.

  9. on 14 Jun 2007 at 8:17 pm Gwendolen Gross

    Whew! I’m glad you wrote that. Having been through two post-partums (kids and books both) and preparing for a third (book only!!!) I can really, really, really relate. You said it kindly, too. It’s not that we’re ungrateful, it’s just a particular sort of experience……..
    Gwendolen Gross (because I have to: author of THE OTHER MOTHER)
    (ditto about the publicity stuff)

  10. on 17 Jun 2007 at 7:29 am Bethany

    But hey, isn’t this a part of the “writing high?” You know, the excitement before the climax. And then it bursts. Want the high back? Well, you gotta work at it… and then again, you get to ride teh wave. :-)

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